The Real Secret to Changing Your Habits and Emotional Reactions | Dr. Nicole LePera (Replay)
Women of Impact
Impact Theory
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🗓️ 1 July 2024
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Do you often feel stuck? If we don’t intentionally engage our conscious mind, we end up spending 95% of our lives on auto-pilot. And according to Nicole LePera, those auto-pilot habits and subconscious thought patterns are exactly what keep us stuck.
On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, holistic psychologist Nicole LePera shares tips and tactics on how to deal with your deepest triggers, how to build confidence, and how to finally get unstuck.
[Original air date: 8-21-19].
SHOW NOTES:
Nicole explains what consciousness is, and why it’s necessary to tap into it [2:52]
The first thing anyone should do is simply observe themselves [5:10]
Nicole talks about how to not judge your own thoughts [8:28]
Nicole describes using meditation and journaling to change habits and thought patterns [9:28]
Nicole advocates focusing on the future, and imagining change [12:04]
Nicole explains how, in the moment, you can switch away from subconscious habits [14:06]
Nicole talks about how sometimes time and space are your best friends [17:05]
Nicole describes why our relationships contain our most powerful triggers [18:29]
Nicole advocates radical honesty to deal with past trauma [21:40]
Nicole tells a story about how not doing the dishes led to huge arguments [24:39]
Nicole discusses the difference between confidence and ego [30:30]
Nicole describes the first steps to becoming genuinely confident [33:03]
Nicole advocates the importance of sleep and nutrition [37:44]
Lisa and Nicole discuss the brain-gut connection [40:30]
Nicole describes 3 things that people can do immediately to improve their health [45:36]
Nicole shares her superpower [48:16]
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| 2:35.2 | Welcome to the show. And where I want to start is understanding our subconscious, our consciousness, I should say. And I have a quote from you. The most impactful tool is developing consciousness. Most of us feel completely merged in our thinking mind. We need to be conscious in order to explore and change any limitations within ourselves. If we're not, then we're going into autopilot and end up making the same mistakes, repeating the same patterns. It's consciousness that allows us to choose to pick new thoughts, to have new feelings, and to make new choices. So talk to me through what actually is consciousness and how do we establish it? So in a very simplified way, my two steps of change that you'll always hear me mention are consciousness and then really starting to break those habits of the subconscious really. That's a lot of the reason why we're stuck. And I always throw this stat out there, Lisa, because to me it's my blowing. The fact of the matter is that if we do not practice or make an intentioned effort at becoming conscious, 95% of our waking day is spent in autopilot. So that's incredible. And to me, that's a lot of the reason why people are saying the word to me, and I'm sure you might have felt this yourself. I know I did, which is stuck. A lot of the reason we're stuck is because, again, the power that 95% of our day were caught in that autopilot. So first and foremost, consciousness is the way that we change. So what consciousness is is coming out of autopilot, is learning to observe ourself, our internal world, and our external world in a new way so that we can be able to ultimately then begin to pick new thoughts. Like you said, new choices, we can really begin to change. And I me It's it's really shifting into another word that I always say is empowerment Because I think when we are in that Autopilot state a lot of us really understandably begin to feel Reactive in the world we live our life and things happen in our external environments a lot of times in our relationships. We feel like we're just going about life reacting to them. And unfortunately, the reactions that we typically have are very patterned are not really the most helpful reactions. So until we practice consciousness, that is where we gain control. Because we shift from, okay, the world is happening to me and I'm just reacting in that same old way that's getting me the same old response or kind of feedback in the environment to wait a minute. Now I'm online, I'm a participant. So let me understand the role that my subconscious or that my mind plays in my daily life. And that is, I believe, how we become empowered because now we're in the picture, we're in the equation and we get to have a say about what happens next in a daily life. And that is, I believe, how we become empowered, because now we're in the picture, we're in the equation, and we get to have a say about what happens next in a new way. So, take me through what I love about your content is just so tactical. So, talk me through someone's listening right now, what is that first thing that they should be doing in their own lives to acknowledge the habits, the consciousness and the sub-consciousness, and then we'll take it to kind of to the next day. Yeah, absolutely. So the first thing that I suggest that even clients that I work with do is observe themselves because the reality is us humans, at least in my belief, are incredibly habitual creatures. From just our daily habits, the things we do first thing in the morning, the things we do last thing at night. To our thoughts become very habitual. We tend to think the same |
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