Hello, hello, everybody. Welcome back to another episode of Fluently Forward. We have on Sabrina joining us

today. She is a relationship and confidence coach. She's also the host of the podcast, You Will Be Okay.

And we recently synced up a couple weeks ago on your podcast to talk about two quote unquote,

unlikable celebrities, Blake Lively and Megan Markle and

like how people perceive them. What makes someone unlikable? What is it about an interview

quote that kind of makes you cringe and clench your butthole? And today we are going to be talking

all about likable celebrities. So Sabrina, welcome to the show. How you doing?

I'm good. Thank you so much for having

me. I'm excited to chat because one of the things that I find so fascinating is just our

perception of people, especially when it comes to a celebrity, because any celebrity that you

love or you hate, sometimes there's a reason for it that's really obvious. Sometimes it's a little

bit more personal and, you know, triggering to our own individual preferences.

I've heard of that quote before where they're like, anything that you hate in someone is because you secretly have that trait and you hate it within yourself.

Oh, 100% true.

Yeah.

Okay.

Is it though because sometimes I'm like one of my biggest pet peeves is when someone is late and I'm like never late. But does it reply to like maybe deeper things? So, okay, I think, I don't know

if it's so universally applicable. Sometimes we all just have certain things that we value. So it could

be the person being late makes you feel like are they not valuing my time? And that is like a trigger for you.

For example, something about me is I can be a bit judgmental about people who are lazy because

I'm the hardest on myself when I feel like I'm being lazy. That's what fills me with self-loathing.

So sometimes I'll feel like, oh, oh, so lazy. But I'm like, no, that's really because I don't like that within myself.

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