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🗓️ 4 October 2024
⏱️ 31 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hey, Dersoven listeners, in the previous episode in the patron zone in which we talked for a couple |
0:05.8 | hours. |
0:06.8 | We reviewed what I believe to be something that is incredibly important, if not the most important aspect of Elon Musk's childhood |
0:16.4 | that could explain a lot of things. So if you want to hear that, you have to become a patron. |
0:21.1 | But in today's episode episode I want to go into |
0:24.0 | invisible loyalties but first let's introduce the podcast my name is Dr Kirk Konda |
0:28.8 | I'm a therapist and a professor who are you my name is Umberto Castagnan and I teach mostly dead |
0:34.0 | languages. So I want to talk about invisible loyalties. Nage is his name and he was a |
0:41.2 | Hungarian psychiatrist and family therapist that developed what is called contextual therapy or contextual family therapy. |
0:48.0 | In a nutshell, part of the theory that he developed is that we all want to be loyal to our parents and |
0:55.1 | loyal can have a lot of different meanings but what he is meaning is that we want |
1:00.6 | approval from our parents and love from our parents and we are given a lot by |
1:06.7 | our parents you know they give us love and affection and attention and food and shelter |
1:11.7 | and all those kinds of things and kids want to and |
1:14.0 | kids want to give back in some way and the way that we can give back because we can't give them money and shelter and all those things |
1:21.0 | but we can give back loyalty meaning that we prefer them |
1:25.0 | over other people or and or we mimic them we act like them we start talking |
1:30.3 | like them as a way to get their approval and when things are going well then |
1:33.9 | there's just the noticing of wow you laugh a lot like your mom or that kind of stuff |
1:39.7 | but when things are going badly like you have a parent that isn't giving the child enough love and attention, |
1:46.4 | then the child starts to ramp up their mimicry as a way to desperately get the love that they never got and that mimicry is what we call |
1:58.0 | or what Nage called invisible loyalties. |
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