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The price of shame | Monica Lewinsky

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πŸ—“οΈ 6 July 2019

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

"Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop," says Monica Lewinsky. In 1998, she says, β€œI was Patient Zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.” Today, the kind of online public shaming she went through has become constant -- and can turn deadly. In a brave talk, she takes a hard look at our online culture of humiliation, and asks for a different way.

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0:00.0

Hello, it's Chris Anderson here. You're about to hear a talk from Monica Lewinsky. No doubt you

0:06.8

already have some idea about Monica. And that's because when she was in her early 20s, she had her

0:11.7

story publicly taken from her. In this talk, Monica calls herself Patient Zero in our economy of shame.

0:19.8

After you've heard the talk, come check out my podcast, The TED Interview, because I got to

0:25.1

sit down with Monica and really hear the inside story of how she has reclaimed her life and

0:30.7

fought to help other victims of online shaming.

0:33.5

It's quite something.

0:35.2

That's the TED interview on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.

0:40.3

You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade.

0:46.2

Obviously, that's changed.

0:48.6

But only recently.

0:50.5

It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit,

0:58.2

1,500 brilliant people all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group

1:07.1

were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have

1:15.6

heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs. But the night of my

1:27.2

speech, a surprising thing happened.

1:29.3

At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy.

1:36.3

I know, right?

1:39.3

He was charming, and I was flattered and I declined.

1:47.4

You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was?

1:51.1

He could make me feel 22 again.

2:05.6

I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.

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