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🗓️ 18 April 2025
⏱️ 29 minutes
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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions.
Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life.
00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal
02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion
05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal
07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms
12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors
19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal
26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting
28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing
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0:00.0 | Maybe your wife said something to you last week or earlier this week that was really bothering you. |
0:07.6 | And you never addressed it. |
0:09.3 | And you don't want to bring it up now because you don't want to rock the boat. |
0:11.9 | But it's still eating at you. |
0:13.4 | It's still bothering you. |
0:14.9 | Guys, that is agitating you. |
0:17.3 | I mean, I gave you a bunch of examples. |
0:18.7 | But just pick one and do it today. Just commit to doing one. |
0:22.9 | I don't, you don't need to do all 10 or 20 or however many on their list. Just do one of those things. |
0:29.3 | Men, today I'd like to talk with you about the perils of self-betrayal. We're going to talk about |
0:34.3 | what self-battrail is. We're going to talk about the consequences of self-b betrayal and how it manifests in your life and why you might feel that way, whether it's externally or internally. |
0:45.7 | But most importantly, we're going to talk about what you can do to not only overcome the concept of self-betrayal, but I think more importantly, the anxiety and fear and |
0:56.0 | anxiousness and agitation and impatience that tend to manifest as a result of self-betrayal |
1:02.3 | activities. And then also I'm going to share some additional resources for you. So without any |
1:07.6 | further ado, let's jump right into it today. What is self-betrayal? Self-betrayal is |
1:12.7 | knowing that you need to do something, that something needs to be done, a conversation needs to be |
1:18.7 | had, an activity needs to be engaged with, maybe it's a to-do list, maybe, like I said, it's a |
1:24.0 | conversation, maybe it's a certain behavior or action that you are engaged in that |
1:29.1 | you should not be engaged in or that you should be engaged in. And anytime you have this thought |
1:34.2 | in your mind, in your heart, in your soul, and you don't physically act upon it, that is a form of |
1:40.8 | self-betrayal. There are a lot of reasons for this, outside factors, influence, |
1:46.5 | manipulation, and there's some internal factors that are going to be present as well. And we're |
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