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What's been the biggest mistakes you've brought to relationships?

Relationships are funny. I mean I've had some really beautiful relationships

and I've had some not so beautiful relationships and that's why certain people are

going to bring out certain things in you whereas others are not but I've definitely brought

cod dependency and low self-worth to relationships like depending on my partner too much for my

happiness really yeah what happens when we depend on our partner to make us

happy catastrophe so here's here's the paradox.

I think that we need to be with someone who wants to make us happier and that we want to

make, we want to add value to each other's lives.

We want to make the path easier but no one can walk our path but ourselves.

The problem is that if you don't feel at least mostly whole, you know, we all have our things that we're dealing with.

But if you don't, if you feel really fragmented and you think a relationship or another person is going to

actually bring all the pieces together, then what's going to happen is that you're

going to be really disappointed because then you're relying on another fallible, flawed human.

And you're going to have all these expectations and your your shoulders are

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