The One Sided Relationship: What It Tells Me About You

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Default, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 30 July 2018

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Have you ever found yourself in one sided relationship where you are doing ALL the work? Where you are giving, and giving, and giving – and getting little to nothing in return? Why do you find yourself one way relationships again, and again, and again? The simple answer is this: You attract the type of relationship you think you deserve. (Tweet it!) So how do you change that narrative? How do you start believing that you’re worth more? How do you block out the lies that tell you you’re not capable, able, deserving, or worthy? Why am I always in a one sided relationship? On today’s episode, I talk to a woman who is struggling with one way relationships in every aspect of her life: from dating, to friendship. She finds that she is in a pattern of putting in all the effort, but getting nothing back in return. I also talk through the three types of relationships you need to have in your life, because learning to recognize which type of relationship you are in will let you know whether or not it’s time to WALK AWAY from a one sided relationship. Friends – this episode is SO JAM PACKED WITH AMAZING INFORMATION!!! Give this episode a quick listen, and then leave your 5-star rating and review on iTunes! It helps to get the word out and challenge others to move toward God’s best for relationships…because you always attract the type of relationship you believe you deserve! (Tweet it) Single, dating, or married this show has something for you. Tune in to today’s show to hear licensed counselor, Debra Fileta, as she answers her caller through this unscripted conversation in Episode 004 of the Love + Relationships Podcast. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to learn more. Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: Learn to let go of the labels in Section 1 of, True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life Read some more about How To Deal With One Way Relationships in this TLD Article! Let go of the labels and cling to God’s truth about who you are in Christ. Ready to have a brave conversation about marriage? Check out my latest book, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, everyone, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,
0:23.7	and it is so great to be together again and chat all things love, sex, dating, marriage, and
0:30.2	singleness. For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor and author
0:35.2	specializing in relationship issues, and I am here to take all your
0:40.7	relationship questions. I've written hundreds of relationship articles across the internet.
0:46.2	And my relationship advice blog, true love dates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of
0:52.0	healthy relationships. And that's really what I'm passionate about.
1:00.8	Have you ever found yourself in a one-sided relationship where you seem to be doing all the work
1:08.5	and getting little to nothing in return? How can you recognize a one-sided
1:14.9	relationship? Why is it that some people tend to attract one-sided relationships more than
1:21.1	others? When do you decide it's time to move on from a relationship like this? And when should
1:27.4	you keep at it? We're going to talk about
1:29.7	all that today and so much more. But first, let me introduce you to our guest. Today, I am excited
1:37.6	that we have Lauren from Seattle, Washington, joining us on the show. Hi, Lauren. Hi. How are you? Almost awake. How are you doing?
1:48.4	Good. Is it rainy in Seattle? I think it's going to be nice today, but who knows?
1:53.1	Awesome. It's rainy here, so we kind of swapped for today. Yeah, sounds like it. I'm excited to have you,
1:59.3	though, and let's go ahead and dig into your question. What do you have going on?
2:04.8	Cool. I'm finding that in most of my relationships, I'm doing almost all of the work. And this is even true for relationships that started out where the other person initiated and was pursuing and doing all everything.
2:19.0	Yeah.
2:19.2	Somehow I find myself like, oh, I'm the only one trying.
2:22.6	So I want to know why this happens and how I can avoid it in the future.
2:27.3	Yeah, that's a really good question and something that a lot of people struggle with.
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