The Narcissist and Hoovering
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 15 February 2021
⏱️ 15 minutes
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Summary
Today's episode of the Narcissists' Code covers the subject of HOOVERING. If you are unfamiliar with the term, Hoovering (like a vacuum) is when a narcissist sucks you back into the relationship by any means necessary. I also cover the "REVERSER HOOVER" a coin I termed. The reverse hoover is a form of the silent treatment that us as narcissists, use to get you to question yourself and reach out.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people? Welcome to another episode of the narcissist code. I am your favorite narcissistic host |
| 0:06.9 | Mr. Lee hammock aka Mr. mental illness from Tik Tok and Instagram and all the other good stuff today's episode is going to be about the narcissistic |
| 0:15.9 | Hoover the Hoover |
| 0:17.9 | And if you this is your first episode to the podcast or to my YouTube channel |
| 0:22.1 | I am a self-aware diagnosed narcissist in PD in the house |
| 0:26.4 | We're not all monsters. That's what you make you think to be are |
| 0:30.2 | But so if you are unfamiliar with the term |
| 0:33.5 | Hoovering it was named after the vacuum cleaner like Hoovering like when a narcissist sucked you back into the relationship |
| 0:39.6 | Suck you back into the friendship. Suck you back into the marriage and things like that |
| 0:44.0 | Everybody I feel like everybody has experienced narcissistic hoovering and they want to know why they want to know how they want to know |
| 0:50.9 | How the narcissist thinks and that's my perspective |
| 0:54.2 | I want to give you the perspective of the the narcissist on different issues, and here is the Hoovering thing |
| 1:02.0 | so |
| 1:03.3 | Hoovering |
| 1:05.6 | We will like a narcissist will literally use anything any and every method to suck you back into the relationship |
| 1:13.1 | Be albeit like they'll try to contact you through internet through |
| 1:18.5 | Through phone calls through emails text messages |
| 1:23.3 | I've seen some people on my TikTok say they like their ex-narsis has like literally literally now listen to this literally |
| 1:31.3 | Change the profile names on the Netflix to message them. Hey message me back. Hey, I miss you |
| 1:37.3 | Stuck like that met like sitting on stuff through their actual mail things like that to try to suck people back into a relationship and the way like |
| 1:46.0 | The reason a narcissist does this and reason that we do this is because we |
| 1:50.7 | I don't know I can speak for myself, but I feel like I speak for a lot of narcissism like we would say like |
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