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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

The Mattering Mindset in Love: How to Choose the Love You Deserve (Part 2) | Episode

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

John R. Miles

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4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

In episode 579, John dives into The Mattering Mindset in Love—how to recognize when you’re being truly chosen, how to stop chasing validation, and how to build relationships that make you feel seen, valued, and secure.

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0:00.0

What if the reason love feels so uncertain isn't because you haven't found the right person,

0:05.4

but because you haven't fully chosen yourself? Too many people mistake being wanted for being

0:11.2

valued. Mistaking mixed signals from mystery and inconsistency for passion. But here's the truth.

0:19.1

Real love doesn't leave you guessing. It's built on mutual respect,

0:23.7

emotional security, and the belief that you matter. In episode 579, we're diving deep into the

0:30.7

mattering mindset in love. How to recognize when you're being chosen out of love versus convenience,

0:36.5

how to stop chasing validation, and how to

0:39.5

build relationships that make you feel seen, valued, and truly secure. If you're tired of

0:44.9

second guessing your worth and love, this conversation will change everything. Welcome to Passionstruck.

0:50.7

Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles, and on the show, we decipher the secrets, tips,

0:55.6

and guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turned their wisdom into practical advice

1:01.3

for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality

1:07.6

so that you can become the best version of yourself.

1:15.7

If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging from astronauts to

1:21.2

authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, visionaries, and athletes. Now, let's go out there

1:29.9

and become Passionstruck. Hey there, Passionstruck family. Welcome to episode 579. Whether you've

1:37.3

been with me for a while, or this is your first time, this is where we challenge conventional

1:42.7

thinking and create lives that truly matter.

1:46.2

Earlier this week, we tackled two powerful conversations that reshaped how we think about

1:51.1

influence on both a global and personal scale.

1:54.7

On Tuesday, I sat down with Edward Fishman, author of the new book, Choke Points, to break down

2:00.6

the hidden power of global supply

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