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The Last Place: Diary of a Retirement Home

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🗓️ 1 April 2021

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

For the past year, most nursing homes and assisted living facilities have been in lockdown. Residents have been kept apart—not just from their families, but from each other. They ate meals alone in their rooms, met new grandchildren on Zoom, and some were alone when they died.

Today many retirement homes are starting to open up again. But the fact is, many people grow more isolated as they age. Even in normal times. Friends and partners pass away, family members and kids get distracted by their own lives. To many of us, nursing homes are a place where we too might end up—they’re a bit of mystery that we visit from time to time, a world apart.

Years ago, I got to know residents at Presbyterian Homes in Evanston, Illinois. And I gave a few of them tape recorders to keep audio diaries of their lives in retirement. Today on the show, The Last Place, diary of a retirement home.

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Music this week from Blue Dot Sessions and “When I Grow Too Old to Dream” by Nat King Cole.

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0:00.0

I'm David Remnikin, each week on the New Yorker Radio Hour.

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0:22.5

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0:27.7

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0:30.6

From PRX's radio toopia, this is Radio Diaries.

0:34.3

I'm Joe Richmond.

0:35.3

Last week, for the first time in a year, I visited my mom and her retirement home in Washington,

0:44.0

DC.

0:45.0

She and the other residents have been in lockdown during the pandemic, but with a rollout

0:48.8

of the COVID vaccines, places like my moms are now opening up.

0:53.1

For the past year in most nursing homes and assisted living facilities, residents have

0:57.3

been kept apart.

0:58.8

Not just from their families, but from each other.

1:01.4

They ate meals alone in their rooms.

1:03.4

They met new grandchildren on Zoom and some were alone when they died.

1:08.6

My mother was cut off from the world and people she knew, but she did okay.

1:13.7

But the fact is, many people grew more isolated as they age.

1:17.5

Even in normal times, friends and partners pass away, family members and kids get distracted

1:22.6

by their own lives.

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