The Keys to a Thriving Marriage Built with Respect, Grace, & Teamwork ft. Jessica Hagner

The Dad Edge Podcast

Larry Hagner

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 1.6K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

In this special episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my wife, Jessica Hagner, for another honest and heartfelt conversation about marriage, parenting, and family life. Together, we pull back the curtain on how we've learned to operate as a team, resolve conflict with respect, and create a family culture where our kids feel seen, loved, and guided.

We discuss the importance of friendship in marriage, the challenges of raising four boys with different personalities, and how grace and intentionality shape our home. Jessica also shares her perspective on what keeps our relationship strong after more than two decades together, even when life gets messy. If you're looking for practical tools and encouragement for your marriage and parenting, this episode delivers a mix of wisdom, laughter, and real-life stories.

TIMELINE SUMMARY

[0:00] - Why conversations like this matter for marriage and parenting

[2:10] - Building a marriage on respect and friendship

[5:18] - How we handle conflict without tearing each other down

[9:02] - Parenting four boys with different needs and personalities

[13:37] - Why consistency matters in discipline and guidance

[17:25] - The role of grace in creating a safe family environment

[21:48] - Keeping our marriage strong in the middle of chaos

[26:13] - Making intentional time for connection as a couple

[30:05] - How we show each child that they are seen and valued

[34:40] - Teaching respect by modeling it in our marriage

[39:12] - The balance between structure and flexibility in parenting

[43:55] - Why shared values anchor our family through challenges

[48:21] - Leading our family spiritually and emotionally

[52:18] - How laughter and friendship keep us connected

[56:44] - Final reflections on creating a family rooted in love and respect

5 KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Respect Is the Glue in Marriage

Every successful partnership is built on mutual respect. It sets the tone for conflict resolution, parenting, and the overall health of the relationship.

2. Conflict Doesn't Have to Divide

Handled well, disagreements can actually strengthen connection. The goal isn't to win—it's to work together with empathy and understanding.

3. Parent as a United Team

Kids feel safest when parents operate from the same playbook. Presenting a united front creates stability and clarity at home.

4. Grace Creates Space for Growth

Rules matter, but grace ensures your home is a safe place to learn, fail, and try again. It's what makes discipline effective without resentment.

5. Friendship Keeps Love Alive

Romance ebbs and flows, but friendship sustains the relationship. Laughter, fun, and shared companionship are what carry you through every season.

LINKS & RESOURCES

Download the 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions
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Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance
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Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast. The Dad Edge movement creates leaders of men, leaders of families, and leaders of communities. We will not only impact this generation of fathers, but the next generation as well. The kids we are raising will have better chances and odds stacked in their favor because of the amazing example
0:21.2	that their fathers emulated for them. We are here to change the world. We are here to change
0:27.6	relationships. We are here to positively disrupt this generation of fathers so no man goes to their
0:33.6	grave with regret. We disrupt the drift of busyness and replace it with razor-focused intention,
0:40.3	passion, purpose, and direction.
0:43.7	We are the Dad Edge,
0:45.7	and we're here to change the game.
0:47.8	We're here to change the game.
1:09.7	I don't know. How do you know if you have a lot of people that I know, been doing this work for about 10 years,
1:11.9	I can tell you that a lot of couples don't have alignment. They're misaligned on a lot of different things. They're misaligned on
1:16.5	parenting. They're misaligned on financial decisions. They're misaligned on their physical intimacy.
1:23.9	They're misaligned on a lot of different things as they go about life, and it shows up in really, really bad ways when we tend to navigate life as two separate people.
1:34.2	But we're married and we're parents, so we're married to each other, and we have kids together.
1:39.7	And we come from two different experiences, two different childhoods, two different type of lives.
1:45.8	And yet we're supposed to make alignment decisions.
1:49.3	So gentlemen, what's going on?
1:51.3	Welcome to the Dad Edge podcast.
1:52.7	I'm Larry Hagner.
1:53.6	I'm your host and founder of this podcast, the show of movement.
1:56.9	And today I've got in studio with me today, my amazing wife, Jessica, and we're going to talk about these things as it relates to alignment and how we've gotten to alignment over the past 22 years.
2:09.4	And the reason I think that this show is going to be really, really important to not only us as a married couple as we discuss these things, but also for you guys, because I think you'll probably realize some of the bear traps that you've stepped in
2:22.8	as a married couple over the years as it relates to trying to get alignment on some of these
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