This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen.

Welcome to episode 37 of the Authentic Sex Podcast.

My name is Juliette. I'm a sexologist, a sex and relationship coach and a tantra practitioner.

And my mission is just to empower as many people in the world to be enjoying great sex,

to be having conversations about great sex,

and to feel really free sexually. So I'm here today to talk about the joy of dirty, slutty,

and rough sex. And I guess I've touched on this topic in previous episodes. However, I want to dedicate a

whole episode to it today because it's a topic that I love. It's a style of sex that I personally

do love. And I feel like there's somewhat of an element of taboo around the fact that a lot of

women and men enjoy this type of sex. So I want to just get it all out there and talk about

it freely and hopefully inspire some people who are listening to explore this style of sex or if you already

are exploring it, just fully embrace this style of sex because it's really normal and natural

to want to be treated like a slut or to be want to want to be really rough with each other and talk dirty

and this is this is a part of sex that yeah perhaps we don't talk about so much with our friends

especially as women there's you know there can be a lot of shame and guilt around wanting to be treated like this

and or shame and guilt around wanting to treat our partner like this.

And so, yeah, so here goes.

I just want to talk about it openly.

So I guess personally, I do enjoy this type of sex. I always have.

I don't know exactly why. And you know what? I'm not going to fucking overanalyze why I do.

I think one element to it is that I really love being

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