Do ladies try to flirt with you when I'm not around?

You're so handsome.

I, if they are, I'm oblivious.

I don't think so.

You're not oblivious, but it's good I think it's easy to tell when people are being

flirtatious. Yeah you know what I can't say that's something that happens very often and that's good

maybe I put up the I'm married vibe. Yeah, that's actually what we're talking about today.

Affairs are sadly very common. Physical affairs, emotional affairs. And so we spend a good bit of time thinking through how to at least make couples aware of that.

Make couples understand that why affairs are wrong, why they're devastating, how to avoid them.

And so today we're going to talk about a fair repellent.

And one author said it's the most effective

a fair repellent ever.

So we'll talk about that on the other side. How about you, Selena, do you guys try to get, I don't know, fresh with you? Is that the right way to think about it?

They, uh...

Uh, not that I notice, I think in my younger years there was more attention but no I just I don't think people are that I don't know the people that I see are not that bold especially

then they see me as like four kids or something. They're like, ugh. But not that I've noticed. And I think that

there's things wives can do to kind of deter that or to shut those types of things down in a very friendly but clear manner and we can talk about that.

Yeah, yeah, so by the way, welcome to the podcast. My name is Ryan. This is my lovely wife, Selina. We are the Fredericks. We did the fierce marriage podcast. We've been doing it for how many years now. We're on episode like 360 something, 370 something. Yeah,, I mean I'd say we're close to five years six six years

I think we're on five years going on six. Oh, it's 50 in a week. It's October

50 episodes in a year. It's October. We started, I thought.

Yeah, I think we're headed into seven years.

Anyway, welcome.

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