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The Good Enough Momfluencer: Disavowing maternal fantasies is easier said than done / Sophie Lewis

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4.9937 Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2023

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Writer, theorist, and recovering academic Sophie Lewis returns to Hell to discuss her Baffler article, “The Good Enough Momfluencer: Disavowing maternal fantasies is easier said than done.” The article is a review of the book, “Momfluenced: Inside the Maddening, Picture-Perfect World of Mommy Influencer Culture,” by Sara Peterson. Peterson’s website says she writes about feminism, domesticity, and motherhood. Peterson also writes a newsletter about the myth of the ideal mother, ‘In Pursuit of Clean Countertops.’ Read Sophie’s article: https://thebaffler.com/latest/the-good-enough-momfluencer-lewis This is Sophie’s third appearance on This is Hell! She was on the show most recently in October of last year, 2022, to discuss her book, “Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation.” You may also remember Sophie being on the show back in July 2019 to talk about her book, “Full Surrogacy Now: Feminism Against Family.” Not only were both those interviews selected by listeners as among the best of each year – and replayed during our end of year ‘Best of’ special broadcasts – but you can find both conversations by going to thisishell.com and searching on ‘Lewis,’ and, as always, they are free. Sophie is currently hard at work on a book for Haymarket on enemy feminisms. Sophie’s lectures are archived at lasophielle.org. Follow Sophie on Twitter at (at)reproutopia and support her work at patreon.com/reproutopia Support This is Hell! at https://www.patreon.com/thisishell

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I'm listening. Oh, no, no. Oh, no.

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Oh, no.

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Oh,

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And, And

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Gee- This is hell. Oke-Doke.

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Live from the United States where capitalism is the virus.

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This is hell.

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We began last week by speaking with scholar and writer M. E. O'Brien, author of family abolition,

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capitalism, and the communizing of care.

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The title of M.E's book is the kind of thing that's right. the

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commonizing of care. The title of Emme's book is the kind of thing that's ripe for taking out of context,

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for judging a book by nothing but its cover,

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and not only by reactionary members of the right, but also so-called centrist and self-identifying liberals.

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The family is sacrosanct in the United States and not only above criticism, but also any kind

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of any analysis whatsoever.

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However, as M.E. explained, abolition does not always,

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and only mean destruction, it also can mean a transformation.

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In the case of family abolition, that can mean an expansion of the care and love that are

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limited exclusively to our relatives within our current political economy.

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The traditional family, a private structure for human relations that is grounded in concepts of property and control, obfuscates any sense of community while limiting

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imaginations that might otherwise be able to have a more collective response of us all

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being in this together instead of at each other's throats at all times.

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