Next time on Dear Alice.

So you just think really hard before you're giving that gift.

What would this person love to receive?

And it might not be something that you like to give,

but you've got to give what somebody wants to

receive. So true. Yeah, and it's a totally different thought on money because

that's a different part of the brain and I think giving gifts like kind of hits

all different parts of the brain

whether your right brain or left brain like creative people might be like I want to make

them something you know and you're giving it to somebody who would hate that

so... I'm a crochet in my hand. You know what I mean?

There's a lot of...

There's so much going on, which is why I was like, this is a really good podcast.

Because we all think differently about gifts.

Also, some people are very generous in gift giving.

Other people are not.

And so it might be a real shock to the system

to give a non-giver, a non a non generous person, a very generous gift.

Right?

I grew up in a family where I think you guys have heard me talk about my mom's extra

extra large rice crispy treats, which are like a loaf in themselves. She only does

Excel. That's how she gifts. She gifts everything really, really big and I grew up

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