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Something You Should Know

The Fast Track To Self-Confidence & How To Stop Procrastinating and Get It Done

Something You Should Know

Mike Carruthers | OmniCastMedia

Science, Social Sciences, Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness

4.64K Ratings

🗓️ 24 April 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

People with names that are difficult to pronounce are often discriminated against. It is not intentional necessarily, but it happens. The result can be that you don’t advance personally and professionally as quickly as someone who has a name that is easy to pronounce. This episode begins with a look at this problem and what you can do to help yourself. https://www.newyorker.com/tech/annals-of-technology/the-power-of-names Some of the most successful and approachable people you meet, seem to have a lot of confidence. It’s attractive when we see it in other people. Many of us wish we had more of it. So where does confidence come from? How can you build it up? That is what Lydia Fenet is here to tell you. Lydia is an ambassador for Christie’s (the auction people) and is herself an auctioneer and professional speaker. She is also author of the book Claim Your Confidence (https://amzn.to/3GQu8ZS). Procrastination seems to be a normal human tendency. There is something very easy about just NOT doing something and putting it off until later. Yet, often that is not the best strategy. From our earliest school homework to that big project at work, there is always that tempting option to do it later. To understand how to stop procrastinating, you first have to understand the real reasons why you do it. And that is what Hayden Finch PhD, is here to discuss. Hayden is a licensed clinical psychologist, behavior change expert, and CEO of Master Your Mental Health (https://masteryourmh.com/), an educational platform and author of the book The Psychology of Procrastination (https://amzn.to/41Ik0ua). When you see someone talking to themselves, you might think they are a little odd. But there are some real benefits in talking to yourself out loud. Listen and I will explain one of the important ones. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/04/120417221613.htm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Today on something you should know, why having a name that's difficult to pronounce can

0:07.1

hold you back, then building up your confidence.

0:11.0

It can pay off big.

0:13.2

When you become confident, it's almost a self-fulfilling prophecy because that confidence

0:17.5

propels you to try things and not to care so much about the result.

0:21.9

So a lot of times I believe people who've been through really difficult things often have

0:25.4

more confidence than people who don't.

0:27.9

Also, do you talk to yourself out loud?

0:31.1

Maybe you should.

0:32.7

And why do people procrastinate?

0:34.9

A lot of procrastinators believe they do it because they perform better under pressure.

0:40.2

There is some truth to that.

0:41.2

A certain group of people does work better under pressure, but by and large, almost everyone

0:46.8

who believes that to be true about themselves is wrong.

0:49.7

If we test that out in a research lab, so that is a false assumption that a lot of us

0:54.4

are making about ourselves.

0:56.1

Call this today on something you should know.

0:59.3

There's no doubt that we have great doctors and nurses and healthcare people.

1:04.2

The problem I find with healthcare is the system.

1:08.0

It can take weeks or months to get in to see the doctor.

1:11.2

Then you go and you have to wait even though you have an appointment.

1:14.4

At the appointment, you feel rushed.

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