This is an I-Heart podcast.

One of our readers to our Yahoo column, Brenda, she wrote in and she needs a little

relationship advice.

Look, if you want to check out on Monday, we go through all of our advice, what we thought

about what Brenda should do dealing with a flirty, handsy,

ex-wife, who's also the grandma of her step-grandchildren.

So she doesn't have a problem with the kids.

She has a problem with the ex-wife.

And so we gave our advice, if you want to check out that podcast if you hadn't heard that episode but this

one is fun because this is what the readers this is what you the listeners wrote in to comment

on brenda's situation and give her advice and a reminder what the situation was brenda did right into

us amy and tj my husband has grandchildren from a previous marriage,

which isn't a problem. However, their grandmother, Betty, the ex-wife, is always around.

I've told him I can't tolerate her being there for things like their grandkids' graduation.

I can tolerate that, but not every time we get invited somewhere. For example, last weekend,

we were at a birthday party for someone

on his side of the family, her ex-in-laws. Why is she there? And every time they meet, Betty is

hugging and kissing on my husband. She can't just say hi and move along. I've asked him over and

over to set boundaries, but he acts like he doesn't know what that means.

I told him I'm not comfortable going to our next event if she'll be there.

And he said, okay, I'm going anyway.

Really? What do I do?

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