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🗓️ 5 September 2023
⏱️ 34 minutes
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0:00.0 | In a land not so far far away, the three bears were treating themselves. |
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0:31.0 | The Gone Cold Podcast may contain violent or graphic subject matter, listener discretion is advised. |
0:39.0 | For most of us, when we experience the loss of a loved one, it's a finite moment. |
0:45.0 | It's sudden and it's permanent. We are able to mourn and grieve. |
0:52.0 | Closure might not be possible and the grief might last forever, but we are able to know and make at least some sense out of what happened. |
1:01.0 | We hold memorials and funerals to mark the passing of our loved one and to remember their life. |
1:08.0 | Whatever rituals or traditions we've been taught is owed to the deceased out of love and respect or helps us move forward. |
1:18.0 | But for the families and friends of missing persons, there is no such certainty. |
1:24.0 | In the early 1970s, Dr. Pauline Boss, a family therapist and professor emeritus at the University of Minnesota, |
1:33.0 | coined a term for this type of loss. |
1:36.0 | She called the loss for family and friends of a missing person, ambiguous loss. |
1:42.0 | The uncertainty and lack of information or answers as to what happened to their missing loved one is incredibly traumatic, and as Dr. Boss writes, their grief is frozen in place. |
1:55.0 | Closure or any semblance thereof is not possible. |
2:00.0 | Ambiguous loss may never be resolved, a perpetual loop of reliving the same questions without answers over and over again. |
2:12.0 | Dr. Boss also speaks of a natural resiliency among some people who are able to adapt to the experience of loss, able to develop a tolerance and an ability to live with the ambiguity and the unanswered questions. |
2:27.0 | Jared Shaivas went missing in 2018 in Houston, Texas. |
2:33.0 | The grief that Dr. Pauline Boss describes can be seen in his family, an ambiguous grief frozen in place while they wait for answers and justice. |
2:45.0 | And yet there's also a resiliency, a strength of spirit grounded in faith and love that pushes them forward, not only to move forward with their lives, |
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