The Courage to Be Unapologetically Yourself w/ Jodie Cook | Ep 374
The Futur with Chris Do
The Futur
4.9 ⢠998 Ratings
đď¸ 23 August 2025
âąď¸ 52 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Why do we care about what other people think? |
| 0:02.7 | Where do you think that comes from? |
| 0:04.9 | Who do we learn this from? |
| 0:06.5 | And how do we define our own identity and self-worth |
| 0:09.4 | when we export so much of our own value to other people and their opinions? |
| 0:14.8 | And why do you think you or other people do it |
| 0:17.4 | so that your own ability to regulate your happiness, your joy, your self-worth |
| 0:22.4 | is at the wind of other people. |
| 0:26.5 | It must come from school. I feel like it did for me. It's like you're surrounded by people who |
| 0:33.7 | ultimately all want to be the same and it's seen as a good thing to be the same and a bad |
| 0:38.7 | thing to be different. So therefore you're trying to be the same as everyone else while also |
| 0:44.1 | making sure that everyone else thinks you're the same as everyone else. So you really don't stand |
| 0:49.4 | out. Maybe it's a survival thing that then goes through to high school and then goes through |
| 0:55.1 | peer pressure and then people maybe never really get out of that until they're intentional about it |
| 1:01.6 | wonderful i love that you always spare your parents from this kind of conversation so this is |
| 1:07.1 | very consistent with our conversation jodi my parents yeah it's always like it's always like, it's not my parents, I promise you. It's society. It's school. It's other people. But I think a lot of it is related to your parents. And hopefully I'll get you to have a slightly different perspective on this. I agree with you. Schooling is a big part of the problem, but not all the problem. |
| 1:28.0 | Yeah. I think it has a lot to do with our feeling of security. |
| 1:31.2 | We don't feel safe. |
| 1:32.3 | And we know that in social structures, we need to belong to a group to be safe. |
| 1:37.8 | It's because the one who's left behind, the one who's last to be picked on the sports team |
| 1:42.1 | or the one who's put in the corner who's eating lunch |
| 1:44.5 | by themselves, they are not safe at all. |
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