why you feel like you're not enough. So last week I sent out a survey to the email list asking

men about their biggest challenges with women, dating, and relationships. And I found the responses

very interesting. Here are just a few of the common themes I read. I don't have the confidence or

knowledge to approach the women I desire. I'm not rich, handsome, or successful enough to date

the women I want. I get too

needy too quickly around women I like or find very attractive. I settle for the first woman I can

find because I don't feel like I have other options. A perfunctory glance at these answers seems

rather, well, normal. These are the pain points that pick-up and dating companies have attempted

to address for years. It's nothing new for men to struggle with approaching attractive women

or finding themselves becoming needy early into a relationship. However, when you dig deeper,

you quickly realize that these answers all share a common thread, which has gone as of yet unaddressed.

The most common reason men struggle to date the women they want is that they simply don't feel

like they are enough to begin with. If you struggle approaching beautiful women, it's not because

of anything they are doing, but rather because you're afraid that you were not enough of a man to deserve their attention and interests.

If you claim that a lack of money, looks, or success is holding you back, what you're really saying is that your lack of those external items make you feel like you were not enough to attract high quality women.

Neatiness and settling? Same thing. You don't feel like

you are enough to keep a high quality woman in your life so you settle for someone who is not a good

fit for your life or you become clingy, jealous, and possessive of any high quality woman who

does enter your life. With the exception of a few logistics relatedrelated answers, like living in a small town,

working three jobs, and having no time, every single one of the nearly 500 responses I received

all said a variation of the same thing. I don't feel like I'm enough for the women I want.

And the reason that you don't feel like you are enough is simple. You've been lied to and intentionally misled for years.

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