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Assalamu alaikum

When we get married we don't come together in order to have a fight

We don't come together with the intention of having problems

But naturally sometimes we would have problems and this is why we are

rewarded to try and solve the problems

In some instances we're unable to solve these problems not because any one of the two is bad

But we were different people perhaps our upbringing was so different

We did not realize that prior to the marriage and so if we have so much of difficulty that it starts

affecting our minds and we just cannot cope it is permissible to separate by way of divorce

You're not the first person who is going through a divorce and you will not be the last one

Subhanallah those before you have been through divorce the bulk of the companions of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him

Have been through divorce at some stage in their lives

I for one have been through divorce Subhanallah surprise surprise

But yes many many years back not because anyone was bad, but we were two different people

Now my beloved brothers and sisters

Remember that divorce

Is an opportunity given by Allah Almighty for you to rise and shine for you to earn reward

For you to be able to earn the pleasure of Allah and ultimate paradise. Why do I say that?

I say that because

We are taught that if you didn't get along you're not the first couple on earth who are not getting along

You might say well, we have children you're not the first couple on earth who has children and have divorced

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