not to get on my soapbox what does that mean like what soapbox what soap do you guys use when you say oh this person is on their soapbox do y'all be using ole do you y'all use ole do you allie do y'all be using dove did yall know that Dove is a beauty bar and not soap?

So you have to double cleanse.

So anyways, I still don't understand that saying.

Let me know in the comments or in the DMs.

A lot of y'all be DM in me.

And I really do appreciate it.

Even if I don't respond to you you I at least try to read it

anyways so not to get on my soapbox and I do want to explain how excited I am

but I just want to say that we have seen in many instances that if this was a

black woman just a regular black this was a black woman, just a regular black woman, not a black woman

with a bunch of tattoos, a bunch of swinging accusations, a bunch of baby daddies, a bunch of

physical abuse accusations, a bunch of baby daddies, a bunch of physical abuse accusations, a bunch of inappropriate

TikToks, a bunch of, like, not even like someone that is just like not even from a good family.

Like none of that, not even someone who is not Christian.

Because like, if this was a black woman,

she would not ever even be able to be looked at as the Bachelorette.

Think about it.

Every single time that we have someone that has gone through something similar in the public eye,

like Taylor Frankie Paul, that is not a white woman she is stoned whereas listen i wasn't there

in the original mom-talk scandal like i don't know how i would have heard about it i don't know

how it would have reached my ears or my

community everybody was like oh that's that girl from mom talk oh that's that girl from mom talk

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