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The #1 Negotiation Mistake Women Make with Kathryn Valentine (Best Of)

Financial Feminist

Her First $100K

Self-improvement, Education, How To, Business

4.76.2K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

If you're a woman navigating the complex world of career negotiations — whether you’re gearing up for an annual review or trying to land a new job with higher pay, you're in for a treat. In this special replay episode, Tori sits down with speaker, corporate trainer, and gendered negotiation expert Kathryn Valentine to uncover the secrets of successful salary negotiations. Kathryn's insights dispel the myths and provide actionable strategies for leveling the playing field in the corporate world so you can tackle your next negotiation with confidence. Kathryn’s Links: Kathryn’s Website 75+ Things You Can Negotiate Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/the-1-negotiation-mistake-women-make-with-kathryn-valentine-best-of/ Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Quince For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Netsuite Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Masterclass Get an additional 15% off any annual membership at Masterclass.com/FFPOD. Indeed Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD. ZocDoc Visit Zocdoc.com/FFPOD to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. ResortPass Visit Resortpass.com and use code FFPOD to get $20 off your first ResortPass experience. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

There are two ways to change your financial situation.

0:02.9

Spend less or make more.

0:04.5

Today, we're talking about the latter and how to negotiate like a woman.

0:07.9

Let's get into it.

0:40.9

Welcome back, Financial Feminists. I'm excited to see you. Thank you for being here. My name is Tori. I'm a money expert. I'm a New York Times bestselling author. I fight the patriarchy by making you rich. And I host this show, which is the number one money podcast for women in the world. I've helped over 5 million women save money, pay off debt, start investing, start businesses, and feel financially confident. And if you're here, you're in good company.

0:45.2

So if this is your first time, welcome. I hope you stick around. And if you're an oldie-buddy goody, welcome back. We recently did an episode with Aaron McGoff about the job market in 2025,

0:50.3

and it was one of the most popular episodes we've done in a while. One of the biggest questions we got from you all was, okay, what happens when you get past the initial stages of the job

1:00.5

interview and are ready to get the job offer? How do I know how to negotiate? How do I know even

1:06.6

what to say? But also, what kind of numbers or things should I be asking for. I think this is what

1:12.6

trips a lot of people up is they know, hopefully, that they should be negotiating, but then they're like,

1:17.6

what do I say? How do I say it? How do I not piss somebody off? And also, what do I even ask for?

1:23.4

So this previous episode from Catherine Valentine was so insightful about the negotiation process for both new hires, but also for those of you who are looking to negotiate your salary at your yearly annual reviews. So we wanted to reshare it with you because it is value-packed.

1:38.6

As a child of a single working mom, Catherine Valentine grew up acutely aware of the many ways in which the working world wasn't working for women. After starting her career in management consulting, Catherine spent

1:48.1

her time in business school researching how to negotiate specifically as a woman. That work is the

1:53.2

foundation of her research-based approach to women's leadership development. A top-rated speaker,

1:58.6

her clients include multinational organizations such as J.P. Morgan,

2:02.3

KPMG, and TIAA. And her work has been featured in the Harvard Business Review, the Wall Street

2:06.7

Journal, Forbes, and Fast Company. In this episode, Catherine and I are talking about all of the

2:11.4

reasons you should negotiate, and though well-intentioned, all of the advice to negotiate like a man,

2:18.7

why that's more harmful than helpful. We also break down the strategies you can use to advocate for yourself in the workplace

2:22.9

and talk through all of the things you can negotiate. And there is a list of all of the things

2:28.6

you can negotiate outside of just your base salary. We had a blast in this conversation.

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