Thanksgiving With a Narcissist! What Should You Expect? | The Narcissists' Code
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 26 November 2025
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
In this segment, we discuss what to expect during the holidays, specifically focusing on Thanksgiving with narcissists. We explore the psychology behind their actions and the potential for hoovering during these family gatherings. This discussion provides insight into navigating these complex relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | Thanksgiving with a narcissist. |
| 0:04.0 | That's what we're talking about today y'all, because, you know, Thanksgiving's coming up. |
| 0:09.2 | Holiday season is coming up. |
| 0:11.2 | And everybody who's dealing with that narcissus is already probably on edge. |
| 0:15.5 | You know what I mean? |
| 0:16.4 | Holiday season is NARC season. |
| 0:19.3 | And it just doesn't start with Thanksgiving. |
| 0:21.5 | Demnir saw us with Memorial Day and Halloween and stuff like that. |
| 0:26.7 | So today we're talking about handling or dealing with a narcissistic person during Thanksgiving. |
| 0:32.9 | Like what should you do? |
| 0:33.9 | What shouldn't you do? |
| 0:35.2 | Should you reach out? |
| 0:36.1 | And if and if you are not together, if you're not together with this person, watching out for the Hoover, y'all know the old narcissistic Hoover. |
| 0:49.1 | This is the perfect time of the year. We're going to start with the Hoover. The perfect time of the year for your narcissistic, toxic partner, ex-parent, friend, |
| 1:00.5 | whoever it is, to reach out to you to give thanks. |
| 1:05.8 | To give thanks for being there or thanks for always being such a good person, even though I didn't deserve it. Thanks for being there or thanks for always being such a good person even though I didn't deserve it. |
| 1:13.3 | Thanks for always treating me with kindness, caring, and compassion. |
| 1:17.8 | Even when I didn't deserve it, thanks for everything. |
| 1:20.5 | Thank you, thank you, thank you, please. |
| 1:23.7 | This is a hoovering season, y'all. |
| 1:25.5 | You got to watch you. |
| 1:26.6 | If you deal with their narcissists doing this time of year you got to be on guard and i don't think i i don't think i need to reiterate that but i'm going to because i care about y'all i want y'all to win i want you to win thanksgiving so if you're dealing with this type of person and you've got them blocked or |
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