Hey girls, I have a question, not really a dilemma. I have a question, not really a dilemma. I, 22 female have been with my boyfriend 25 male. So say again, 22. 22 female have been with my boyfriend 25 male for six months now. I'm currently finishing up my master's,

and we've been discussing going on trips together. However, my mum is strict, and I don't know how to tell her about the trip or how to go out without disclosing the details to her. We are quite close, so that brings some difficulty, as I just can't say I'm going with friends, and she'll say which ones and ask for picks and we'll do video call.

Not to control,

but that's just how we normally do things.

Yeah.

Please help your please help please your help please

your help will be much appreciated i'm thinking of like a summer holiday like june or july for my

birthday thanks gurneys tricky it's tricky does your mom know you have a boyfriend yeah that's even true that's the first

that's the first that's the first that's the first that's yourself i don't know it doesn't say you

here yeah knows that you do yeah but does your mom know you have a boyfriend

that's the question tell me how sorry just so we're on patron now, have, or even both of you,

have you ever, like, told your parents

you're going on holiday with a guy?

Yeah, my boyfriend at the time. And how did that process go? I told them about a week before, I said I'm going on Monday with my boyfriend. And there was no, like, questions. Well, what are they going to? No, I'm just asking. I'm just saying that there's nothing to question.

There's not really anything to question.

Like, you anything to question.

Like, you, you, it gets to a certain point where, I don't know about in every, but this is, this is, this is, I'm very much about your own household. I'm talking about my own household. Yeah. It gets a certain point where it's like, I'm not asking for permission. I'm telling you that this is happening. and that's what's happening.

Like, I think there comes a time where... for permission. I'm telling you that this is happening and that's what's happening.

Like, I think there comes a time where it's like you hit the ceiling with your parents

in terms of like there's no other.

They have to understand that yes, you are my child but you are not a child.

Do you know what I mean?

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