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So, calendar-wise, my ex-husband and I, we have meetings from time to time where we go over, like, what several months

will look like. And it just feels really good because yesterday we got all the way to

June and maybe July, but I told him it just depended on some of our work stuff that we kind of,

what our summer vacation looks like, I don't know.

But we had to, there were some things where we had to work with each other, like, based on what he had and what I have and then what the kids have. And I just have a lot of gratitude for how

we're able to handle it. Because I know, I was talking to someone else. I know it's not that

easy with her co-parent. And so I'm just thankful that we took the time and we carefully went through month and we were there for each other. Like, hey, this would be really helpful if you could take the kids this day, which I know normally is not your day. But I have this. And then like his girlfriend got him tickets to some concert one weekend,

which happens to fall on his weekend.

But I was like, well, I'll take him that weekend. Like, you know, it's not that big big deal. So I just like that we can be that way. Do you find compromising is easier the longer you do it? Yes. I just think sometimes you have to. So this would be a tip too. is like sometimes if you're fresh off maybe um not agreeing about something like maybe have your meeting later because when you're in both and like

if vibes are good for both of you get all you get as much out as you can then you're yeah like you're

you're you're just in a good place where both of you are willing to give, it's a give take that feels good. And it's like, hey, yeah. I mean, when we were hanging up, he was like, hey, this was a really good call. Like, thanks for being so cool about it. And I'm like, yeah, thank you for being cool about it. And, you know, taking the dog this weekend when I need extra help with the dog. So I'm just thankful because I know that's not always the case.

And sometimes we do have, like we had another thing we had to work through recently where the vibes weren't so good. But we got through it and we sort of a few hours later, it resolved itself. And so somebody just got to be patient. But that would have, if we had had a calendar meeting scheduled around that time, we probably should have moved it. Because I think you need to do that when the vibes are feeling good.

I'm glad to hear that.

Yeah, so I should have gratitude for it.

Good for you.

Me, I don't know if I have any one specific thing.

I had a full day yesterday, but it was a good day.

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