Tatum & The Bullying Church Narcissist - Narcissistic Abuse, Spiritual Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Society & Culture, Relationships, True Crime, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 30 May 2022

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Brandon talks with Tatum about her family's experience with a bullying narcissistic church elder. It's a story of extreme love bombing, gossip as a form of concern, the fog, minimization, and smear campaigns. This may be a friend or faith-based story, but it has all the characteristics of an emotionally abusive romantic relationship. They also discuss, future faking, Christian abuse, generosity as a form of control, vulnerability, gaslighting, justification, gut feelings, therapy, support systems, hypocrisy, belittling, submission, projection, flyings monkeys, fear, obligation, guilt, and much more. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] Thank you to our sponsor CREDIT KARMA. Check your credit score on Credit Karma for free! Plus Credit Karma can find you loan offers at creditkarma.com/loanoffers and that's 100% free too! Head on over to creditkarma.com/loanoffers and find personalized loan offers that fit you today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Tatum,
0:06.6	and Tatum and her partner were bullied by a narcissistic church elder.
0:11.5	It's a story of extreme love bombing, gossip as a form of concern,
0:16.6	the fog, minimization, and smear campaigns.
0:51.5	Music the fog, minimization, and smear campaigns. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick and with me today, I have Tatum. How are you?
0:55.2	I'm doing well. Thanks for having me here.
0:57.7	Well, thank you for being here. And for those of you that want to be a guest on our show like Tatum is today, please do go to
1:03.2	Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:04.9	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
1:07.3	When you click on that button, there's all these instructions, either fill out our guest
1:10.5	form or send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com. And today we are going to be talking
1:17.4	to Tatum about her experience with her church and the leadership of the church. And it ran itself
1:25.9	like a cult-like environment or at least the
1:29.0	leaders there there did and it was an interesting relationship for you and for your husband
1:37.0	how you got there and everything that kind of transpired within it that had you eventually have this relationship
1:46.9	destroyed. And it's an interesting story that I think a lot of people who are in families will
1:53.3	have a lot to resonate with. And even if you're in a relationship, this episode will have a lot of things for you to
2:03.0	resonate with because the tactics that are kind of being used here are pretty much the same
2:08.1	you see throughout the the different types of abuses and different types of family relationship
2:13.9	and here organizations so I just really want to thank you for being here with me
2:21.1	today. And now the, oops. And now I said your real name there. Oh my gosh. And now Tatum,
2:33.8	the floor is now yours.
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