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🗓️ 3 July 2025
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Ever feel like you’re pouring your energy into the wrong things? You’re not alone. In this game-changing episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind tackle the secret to caring about the right things. They take a deep dive into how aligning your thoughts, words, and actions can unlock true happiness and fulfillment.
Download: Caring About The Right Things worksheet.
The conversation kicks off with an inspiring quote from Mahatma Gandhi about finding harmony in life—a perfect starting point for an episode full of “aha!” moments. Duane and Eric explore why so many of us, especially those battling addiction or mental health struggles, waste time and energy on things that don’t really matter. Sound familiar?
But don’t worry—they’ve got your back. The hosts share practical, no-nonsense advice on how to identify your core values and use them as a personal GPS for better decision-making. With their guidance, you'll learn how to cut stress, build resilience, and tackle life’s challenges without losing sight of what truly matters.
The episode also breaks down an actionable five-step plan to help you live a more aligned and meaningful life. From identifying your core values to practicing mindful decision-making, letting go of what you can’t control, and cultivating self-compassion, Duane and Eric make it easy to start making changes today.
This isn’t just about ditching the things that drain you—it’s about being intentional with your energy and care. The hosts remind us that aligning with your values is a journey, not a quick fix. It takes time, patience, and a healthy dose of self-love.
Whether you’re on the road to recovery or just looking to level up your personal growth, this episode is packed with insights and actionable tips to help you live a more authentic, balanced, and fulfilling life. Ready to start caring about the things that truly matter? Tune in now!
Download: Caring About The Right Things worksheet.
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Key Topics
Timestamps
[00:01:18] Introduction to the topic of caring about the right things
[00:02:52] Discussion on finding harmony and happiness
[00:05:30] The power to change and align with true values
[00:07:11] Steps to identify and focus on what truly matters
[00:10:25] Breakdown of the five-step process for living a congruent life
[00:13:44] Importance of letting go of the uncontrollable
[00:15:44] Closing thoughts and worksheet information
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0:00.0 | Welcome to the Addicted Mind Plus, the podcast where recovery, mental health, and wellness take the front seat. |
0:07.0 | I'm Dwayne Austerland, and joining me is my co-host, Eric Osterland, known for his insightful work on the Stuck Brain podcast. |
0:14.8 | In each episode, we'll dive into actionable, small steps to help those in recovery journey further along the path to wellness. |
0:22.3 | Our conversations are designed to be concise, typically around 15 minutes, though we may |
0:27.0 | occasionally delve deeper when the topic demands it. Our goal to provide you with practical |
0:32.0 | advice grounded in real experiences and expert insights to empower your recovery journey. So whether you're on a |
0:39.3 | break, on a walk, or just taking a moment for yourself, join us as we explore the many facets |
0:44.4 | of recovery and mental health, one small step at a time. This is The Addicted Mind Plus, |
0:50.3 | where your journey to wellness gets an extra boost. So let's get started. |
0:59.5 | All right, everyone. Welcome to the Addicted Mind. Plus, we are on to another episode. |
1:07.4 | And this is a topic that impacts all of us. And is definitely something that we all have to pay attention to. Yeah, I'm excited about this episode because like you said, |
1:10.9 | it affects all of us. Whether you're struggling in recovery or not, it's important to know about |
1:16.2 | this topic. So let's dive in. Yeah. And today we're going to talk about the power of caring |
1:22.5 | about the right things. Now, how often have you found yourself lying awake at night? Maybe you obsess over |
1:30.6 | someone's comment in your life and you just can't stop thinking about it. Or maybe you spent |
1:35.9 | time just scrolling through social media, comparing your life to the curated highlight |
1:42.9 | reels of other people. And if so, you're definitely not alone. |
1:46.9 | And it affects all of us, addicts and non-addicts alike. It's the art of sharing about the right |
1:53.8 | things. Yeah, Duane. And I'm so glad you said art because it is, it's one of those skills that |
1:59.9 | gets developed over time and effort and reflection, |
2:05.0 | which is important. Yeah, absolutely. It is really an art form. I've found myself through my own life |
2:13.3 | having to relook at where I'm at and refocus and put my energy towards the right things. |
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