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The Addicted Mind Podcast

TAM+ Ep 36: Unlocking Emotions: How to Identify and Regulate Your Feelings in Recovery

The Addicted Mind Podcast

Duane Osterlind, LMFT

Health & Fitness, Medicine, Mental Health

4.8621 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2024

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever felt a whirlwind of emotions but couldn't pin down exactly what you were feeling? You're not alone. Many people, especially those on the road to recovery, struggle to identify their emotions. This episode of "The Addicted Mind" podcast dives into the crucial skill of recognizing and naming our feelings.

Hosts Duane and Eric explore why pinpointing emotions is so important, especially for those battling addiction. They explain that many people used substances or behaviors to cope with overwhelming or confusing feelings. Learning to identify emotions is a key step in breaking free from destructive cycles.

The hosts introduce a practical tool: asking yourself specific questions to figure out which emotion you're experiencing. They walk through examples for emotions like fear, envy, anger, shame, and guilt. By answering these targeted questions, listeners can better understand their emotional state.

Duane and Eric stress that accurately identifying emotions is crucial for "checking the facts" – a method discussed in a previous episode. Once you know what you're feeling, you can examine if your emotional response fits the situation. This allows you to "adjust the volume" of your emotions – either dialing them up or down as needed.

The hosts share real-life examples of how this process has helped people. In one case, a client realized they were feeling shame rather than guilt, leading to a breakthrough in their healing journey.

Listeners are encouraged to practice this skill and to join a live "deep dive" session for more in-depth learning. The hosts also offer a downloadable worksheet to help listeners work through identifying different emotions on their own.


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Key Topics

  • The importance of identifying specific emotions in recovery
  • Using targeted questions to pinpoint emotions
  • Examples of questions for fear, envy, anger, shame, and guilt
  • How emotion identification connects to "checking the facts"
  • Real-life impacts of accurately naming emotions
  • Resources for further learning and practice


Timestamps


0:00 - Introduction and importance of emotion identification

2:43 - Connection to previous "Check the Facts" episode

5:43 - Exploring fear as an emotion

7:10 - Discussing envy and its complexities

8:05 - Examining anger and its various triggers

10:13 - Distinguishing between shame and guilt

13:43 - Closing thoughts and resources for listeners


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Addicted Mind Plus, the podcast where recovery, mental health, and wellness take the front seat.

0:07.3

I'm Dwayne Austerland, and joining me is my co-host, Eric Osterland, known for his insightful work on the Stuck Brain podcast.

0:14.3

In each episode, we'll dive into actionable, small steps to help those in recovery journey further along the path to wellness.

0:22.3

Our conversations are designed to be concise, typically around 15 minutes, though we may

0:27.0

occasionally delve deeper when the topic demands it. Our goal to provide you with practical

0:32.0

advice grounded in real experiences and expert insights to empower your recovery journey. So whether you're on a

0:39.3

break, on a walk, or just taking a moment for yourself, join us as we explore the many

0:44.1

facets of recovery and mental health, one small step at a time. This is The Addicted Mind Plus,

0:50.3

where your journey to wellness gets an extra boost. So let's get started.

0:59.0

All right, everyone. Welcome to The Addicted Mind. We have another great episode today.

1:05.5

I want to start by asking you a question. Have you ever felt an overwhelming surge of emotion, but couldn't quite put your finger on what exactly you were feeling? Maybe it was a mix of anger, sadness, anxiety, envy,

1:14.2

jealousy, all rolled into one, leaving you confused and overwhelmed. If you're nodding your head

1:20.0

right now, as you're listening to this, you're definitely not alone. Identifying specific

1:25.0

emotions is challenging, especially for those of us on the recovery journey,

1:30.6

maybe due to our own history of either having overwhelming emotions or numbing our emotions,

1:38.4

it can be difficult to end up trying to identify them.

1:42.8

Today, we're going to work on that piece.

1:45.8

And this connects to our previous episode on Check the Facts, where you need to identify your

1:53.9

emotion to be able to check the facts on that emotion and decide if you're going to dial

1:59.1

that emotion up or dial that emotion down, depending on the facts in the if you're going to dial that emotion up or dial that emotion down,

2:01.7

depending on the facts and the situation you're in.

2:04.8

If you have a difficult time identifying your emotion, it can be challenging to do that exercise.

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