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Hey guys, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast. We are David Ashley Willis and on this podcast we address the truth about sex intimacy and lifelong love.

And we are having so much fun in this summer question and answer series going back and answering questions, live recordings from the exo marriage conferences we did this past spring.

And today's question is it is a hot one. It's one that even took me off guard a little bit.

It did and I love how it took you off guard and it just made me crack up. I just crack up even thinking about it.

The question is, is masturbation wrong in marriage, either together or apart?

We have a lot to say about this one, so let's dive in.

Well, I'm going to give this one today. Seriously, this is the question.

I'll help answer it. Is masturbation wrong in marriage, either together or apart?

Jimmy Evans, can we use a lifeline? Jimmy Evans.

Oh no. Can we phone a friend? Is it wrong?

This is a question. This is one of those issues that the Bible, which I read a lot, is largely silent on this issue, which is unfortunate because I could really use the backup right now, biblically.

Let me think. There is one obscure reference in the Old Testament of a guy spilling his seed on the ground that was frowned upon, but the specific context of this, this isn't the Bible, guys.

I'm just telling you what's in there is that he was like called a like, well, you know what, you can read the story.

But it's not even about, it's great. Where was I going? That story's not even about masturbation.

I really find you had a loss of words. I'm thinking.

I'm just thinking. Maybe we should preview these. Here's the deal. Jesus says to look at a woman with lust is to commit adultery.

We know right off the bat that any masturbation that's fueled by a lust that is not directed towards your spouse is wrong because of what's happening in your mind.

So what's happening in your mind? You're already out of bounds regardless of what's happening physically as a result of that.

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