Hey guys, welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast. We are Dave and Ashley Willis and

on this podcast, we address the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. And I hope

you are enjoying this Q&A series as much as we are. We like to refer to these as Q&A

quickies because the work-wikie is just fun and this podcast is called The Naked Marriage.

And we have a great question for you guys today.

Yeah, this is a good one. And the question was to be fully transparent should couples

disclose everything they did prior to their marriage to one another. And this is an honest

question. It's like do I want to burden my spouse with all these details? Do I want to

get into the to every specific of everything in my sexual past? It's a really, really honest

question and an important question. And we've got some hopefully really helpful insight

on it in this session. So let's dive in.

To be fully transparent, should couples disclose everything they did prior to their marriage

to one another? And I think that's an awesome question because we talked about in the

Naked, having a naked marriage, you know, you need to be honest. You need to be transparent

and come out with things and not hold things in because it's only going to ultimately hurt

your marriage. And so I mean, my first answer to this is yes, you need to disclose everything.

And I would tell you this too, if your spouse asks you specific questions, you have to

be willing to give those specific answers because when you hold back and you don't get

really specific with your answers, they feel like you're hiding even more than you're

telling them. And so in disclosing, I'm going to take this off because you guys, there's

like a glare and I want to see your all beautiful faces. When you're talking about these

things, when you do, when you say things like, well, we just can't go there, it's like

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