Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

One thing that I've said again and again over the years for many years now,

which would sometimes be met with a yes and sometimes be met almost with a puzzled expression is this statement.

Success is generous. When you succeed, that is generous to others because we need real life role models, people with happy relationships, people with successful

businesses, people who live to their highest creative expression, people who hire teams,

people who live their life their way. We don't just want to look at historical figures or

celebrities or breakout stars. We want't just want to look at historical figures or celebrities or breakout stars.

We want inspiration in our day-to-day life. You never know who is watching. And, you know,

this has been coming up as a bit of a theme in my life recently since I switched workout studios. And it's

interesting because almost like a policy at this new workout studio where I go now, most days a

week, there is this repetition by the instructors that when we do something, when we aim for something a little bit

harder, right? So making the move a bit harder, not choosing the modification, going for the

advanced version, we are inspiring the room. So I do these strength training classes on a Pilates

reformer machine. I love it. And often you, you know,

you feel a bit tired, you feel a bit worn out. You kind of go to the modification, aka the easier

move, something that feels more supported. But when someone next to you goes for the harder move,

in fact, a couple of weeks ago, a teacher took a class next to me. She was right next to me on the reformer, so I saw what she was doing. I went harder as a result. And underneath each reformer machine, there's like a positive mantra or like an affirmation or a quote. And one of them says, under the machine, I tend to favor. It says, you're inspiring your

neighbor. And so sometimes I think that we think that success is selfish. We're taking what

belongs to others. We're taking more than our fair share. We can even feel guilty if we're

happily married. Our health is good. Our finances are good.

But what if the opposite were the reality here? What if we're a real life role model for

someone who wants to attract those things? Or you're a real life role model for the person

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