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Calm Parenting Podcast

Straight Up Defiance: 7 Ways to Stop It.

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 July 2023

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Straight Up Defiance: 7 Ways to Stop It. Do you have a child who is defiant, oppositional, backtalks, or rolls his eyes? Kirk shows you how to be tough, get respect, and get to the root of the issue to stop this in your home. Extremely helpful and in-depth podcast—so please share it. Our Christmas in July Sale Continues This Week! Get our lowest prices on the Get Everything Package and the Calm Parenting Package. Want to talk with Kirk directly and come up with a game plan for your family? Kirk will work with you individually, or together with your spouse, to get you on the same page and help with the toughest parenting situations you haven’t been able to solve. These calls are a game-changer. Click here to learn about mentoring packages. Questions? Need help deciding on the best tools for your family? Email [email protected] and Casey will help you personally! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So I remember when Casey was in his early teen years and there were certain times where I could tell he just was angry at me or didn't agree with me and he was defiant.

1:01.6

And at times I would look at him and say I know you just flipped me off in your head.

1:08.1

What I want you to know is it's not going to work and that doesn't lead to anything good.

1:13.7

So if you're angry, if you're frustrated,

1:16.5

you disagree with me, I'm good with that.

1:19.5

Let's go for a walk and talk.

1:21.2

When you're ready, I'll listen to to you I'll problem solve with you all day long

1:26.1

but if you think that you're going to talk to me like that or talk to mom like that it's not going to work

1:31.1

well for you and it's not going to work in my home.

1:34.8

That happened occasionally. Casey was defiant.

1:39.4

We had about 1500 so-called defiant children in our home. About 8 or 900 of those were diagnosed

1:48.2

with something called Opposition Defiant Disorder, ODD., I have a bias here.

1:54.3

I hate that diagnosis, because while I know it's real,

1:59.8

I think it's very rare, but it's thrown around all the time and put on kids who are not

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