No, you're not quirky, goth, or impressive if you were unbathered by the Dahmer series.

And no, it isn't cute if you only wished it showed more gory detail.

Seriously, it isn't some flex to lack empathy for people being brutally murdered.

It's just wildly concerning.

So to all the women out there raising their hands in solidarity of being

unbathered cut the I'm So Special crap today. Dahmer primarily killed black

gay men so he would have to kill white women for you to care. How many until you get

bothered? Huh? How about get some help? This isn't about you.

Thankfully, I'm not the only one infuriated by this.

Tic-talk trends of primarily young white women saying they wish that Netflix's

domer series had been more graphic or morbid have been circulating and sparking conversations about the way we treat victims in the true crime genre.

One creator has referred to the groups of people hanging on to gruesome details as vultures and ghouls of the true crime community that by and large is made up of people that are fascinated as to why people behave so inhumanely towards one another.

And I agree with him, there is something so beyond off-putting to me to see a woman wearing

Dahmer earrings begging for more morbid details about his murders. But the sensationalist crass, commercial, and disturbingly casual attitude we have

about true crime as a whole is one thing. The way that people become fans and groupies

of serial killers is another. And expectedly, we've seen plenty of this

behavior on Tik-Tok. They're creators claiming they love Jeffrey Dahmer and though many

commenters call them out for it, other commenters state that they feel the same way too.

Some have used clips from various Netflix series to make thirst traps of the most notorious

killers out there to include Dahmer, Bundy and Ramirez

aka the Night Stalker. Sure there is a chance that these creators are doing this

for attention and I would absolutely love to believe that the

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