Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

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I'd say the number one skill to master love in relationships is to remember that in every

relationship there are three relationships. The one you have with yourself,

the one your partner has with themselves, and then the one you have with each other. And I

think so often we only think about the one we have with each other. We don't realize that so many of the challenges in our relationship are because of our relationship with ourselves and our partners' relationship with themselves. We think, I'm doing everything everything but they don't feel better, but that's

because they're going through something internally. And so you have to remember

that there was a you before, there was a you during, and there's a you during

you during and there's a you after every relationship and there's a them before

a them during and a them after every relationship and when you accept and understand that,

you can actually solve problems easier

because now you have three things to look at

rather than just one.

So you can start to understand, okay, well, is that their internal thing? Is it my thing? Let's check with them. Let's communicate. Let's figure that out.

I really think of that is like just learning how to master emotions.

Yeah. Learning how to be the master of your emotions, understands someone else's emotions. It's like learning how to be the master of your emotions, understand someone else's emotions, and the

emotion that you're creating together.

Is there anything that you have around building kind of like a relationship motto, vision there anything you talk about around that?

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