Hey everyone, welcome back to Jillian on Love, very special episode today.

You are actually going to watch me and listen to me coach someone.

She's in the early stages of dating and her anxiety is starting to kind of kick up into

sort of medium gear and she's having a hard time recognizing if it's her or if it's this scenario.

And this is so important because what you're going to see is the ways in which it's so easy for us to ignore our intuition.

And not only that, how we can get attached to someone or attached to the idea of someone

because of a story that we have in our head and that the moment we start to get excited about someone and that attachment

starts to form or it's not even the attachment to the person it's an attachment to the idea

of them or the dream of what could be with them and as soon as that starts to get activated

inside of us immediately we go into a little bit

of our shell and we don't want to communicate as authentically as we would if we didn't care

about someone.

And for me to kind of point out that there are certain things that this person who she just

started dating that I don't like some of the things that he's been doing. It's got nothing to do with him. This is not about vilifying anyone,

but I did have to point out something that he did that shows me that he is not actually as

interested as he should be at this point.

Tell me, what's your name and how can I help you?

So today, what's going on for me is I'm very early dating someone.

It's been about four weeks, four or five weeks or so.

We've gone on four nice dates dates and it feels really different in that

it's a much slower sort of thing. You know, there hasn't been like a kiss yet or physicality

or a lot of sexual, anything, intimacy, which feels different in general than with other people that I've dated and

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