Hey there, beautiful people. Welcome to Fantaid, the podcast for all those complex and

complicated conversations about the great areas in our lives. I am editor and journalist

and authoress times to Trevell Anderson. And I am fucking exhausted ready for a break

and ready to get into this conversation. I am excited to chat a little bit later about

social media influence and just like being on social media as a part of your job. We'll

be talking about that in just a little bit. But I first want to get into this past the popcorn

that is kind of started off by a conversation that I started having with some friends via text

about someone that I was talking to briefly. That's a whole other conversation. But I tweeted

this the other day and wanted some feedback on it and got a lot more feedback than I expected.

And a lot of feedback that I wasn't expecting. This is what I tweeted.

For those of you that have iPhones and are familiar with the do not disturb features of

them the way that focus works now, you can set it to where people will know that your do not

disturb is on. But when they send you a text message, it'll say delivered quietly. And you can

also then choose to notify anyway, which means that they'll get the alert even if they're

on do not disturb. So I tweeted that quote notify anyway is supposed to be reserved for urgent

or emergency situations. Am I right? Before I move on from there, Trevelle, what is your

perspective on this? I think it depends on one's definition of urgent or emergency. Because

what's urgent or emergency to you may not be urgent or emergency to me and vice versa. And so

I might hit it because it is urgent or emergency for me. And it might not be for you. That's not

necessarily what you're talking about. But that's how I feel about the whole notify anyway thing.

Like I'm going to hit that button if I need or desire an answer sooner rather than later.

So I generally agree with you that it should be something that people use for emergencies or that

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