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Under the Influence with Jo Piazza

Sleep Is Not Self-Care (It’s Survival)

Under the Influence with Jo Piazza

Jo Piazza, Influence Inc.

Technology, Kids & Family, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Parenting

4.3834 Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Sleep is not a luxury, a reward, or a wellness trend. It's a biological necessity. In this episode, writer and sleep coach Lindsay Scola shares her journey from high-functioning burnout to a late-in-life narcolepsy diagnosis, and why she's helping others rethink their relationship with rest. The conversation explores why traditional sleep advice often fails, how the sleep industry profits from our exhaustion, and what actually helps—from sound sleep masks to mocktails to restoring cast iron skillets on YouTube. This is a no-shame, no-snake-oil guide to making sleep work for your real life. Learn more about Rest Assured and all of Lindsay's sleep work here. Join our newsletter community here. Pre-order EVERYONE IS LYING TO YOU here. Visit our lovely sponsors here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey all, Joey here and you are listening to Under the Influence.

0:09.6

I love sleep. Like, I just love it so much. I really do. In fact, if I could have one superpower,

0:17.6

it would be to be able to fall asleep on command. Because the truth is, I am a total

0:23.9

crap sleeper. I can only sleep if I am laying flat on my stomach with my face smushed into a pillow

0:31.5

in my own bed. And this sucks. I mean, honestly, it really does because I am also a person who functions

0:41.7

when I get about nine hours of sleep. So it just feels unfair that falling asleep and staying

0:48.6

asleep is so incredibly hard for me. And I know that I'm not alone. My guest today is Lindsay Scola.

0:57.8

Lindsay is a writer, coach, and a former overachiever, although I think that she still

1:02.6

overachieves a little bit, who has spent most of her life believing that sleep is a sign

1:08.0

of weakness. And you can understand why, because in every profile we read of a CEO

1:14.6

ever, they talk about how little sleep they need or how they wake up at 5.30 and then they go,

1:20.1

go, go. I hate that for us. I do because I think that rest is such a necessity. It should not be considered self-care.

1:31.7

It should just be considered normal. And Lindsay agrees, now. But she didn't for a long time

1:39.6

until her body staged its own kind of rebellion. After years of hiding her extreme fatigue and shame-napping

1:48.3

in literal bathroom stalls, Lindsay was finally diagnosed with narcolepsy in her 30s. And that

1:56.0

diagnosis changed everything. It didn't just change how she lived, but it changed how she thought about rest.

2:04.8

And that is when she realized what we're going to talk about today, which is the fact that we've all been sold a lie.

2:11.2

We've been sold the lie that sleep is luxury, that it's a reward and then it's a bonus if we are lucky. And now, Lindsay, because

2:19.9

the truth is she is still an overachiever, is on a mission to help others unlearn those things.

2:26.7

She's got a newsletter called Rest Assured and a Sleep Course called Sleep is a power move,

2:31.7

and her goal is to teach people how to reclaim rest without shame.

2:38.3

We're going to talk about all of this today.

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