Hey guys, it's Carly and this is Jade. Welcome to Mommy's Tell All.

Today we are doing something that we've never done before. We're talking to single father who may also be known from the show The Conners on ABC,

formerly known as Roseanne, Michael Fishman. I'm so excited to hear about the new season in the show and how he handles being a single father because most of you know that I am now officially going to be a single mother because Evan and I are getting a divorce. So sorry 2020 was bad and other ways as well, but 2021 is a new year. And I am just I'm just going to try to look on the back.

Right side of things from now on. That's where I'm at in 2021. Yeah, I think that's a great headspace to be in. You know, we're all here for you, Carly. Like you have obviously you have my support. You have our listeners support. I've seen so many positive comments towards you on our Facebook and we all have your back girl and we totally respect your privacy and what you want to share when you want to share and everything like that. But we're here to support you through everything. Thank you. Yeah, I mean, I'm so excited.

I really can't like share anything totally interesting. It's obviously like a really delicate situation. You know, I, I've said a little bit like on my YouTube, but you know, honestly, it's just hard. Like there's lots of people involved. There's lots of family involved. You know, it's it's just a tough transition. And it's like I've stopped like being really sad, which I think is good. But what makes me really sad is just like how much Bella like misses.

Like misses having her dad around, you know, that makes me really sad. Yeah. So the only time I go into the sad place anymore really is kind of then and she's, you know, it's a tough transition for because she just.

She has a lot of feelings because she's a toddler, but also she just, you know, if I say lately, like Bella, why are you so upset? Like I'm used to hearing, you know, mommy, I'm hungry or whatever. And lately it's been like.

I just really miss daddy. And so that's like it's just really hard because, you know, you sit there and you're like, I understand I'm so sorry you feel that way, you know, like, but there's not really anything you can do.

He takes the kids now overnight every other weekend, Friday night and Saturday night and then he sees them the other week on Wednesday night for dinner. So so she's obviously like seeing him and everything.

But it's just like she's used to more. So that's hard. And, you know, it's just there's just like a lot of transitions and I mean a lot of trans and so for me too. So I can't really say anything about specifics, although other than like we're just getting through it and each day is kind of a new day.

And honestly, like I do feel thankful that it's a new year because I feel like it kind of kind of inspires hope and newness and sort of like I mean, gosh, it's like a new goals, right? Like, okay, well, I kind of have to like leave last year behind this happened at the end of last year.

I do want I'm going to keep living. So my life is going to look very different and you guys are going to hear like a lot of how that's going to be different obviously through this podcast.

Yeah, I'm just trying to like be positive. I actually right before we started this podcast today, I had a zoom with my new co-writers for some music and a new producer and I'm going to be writing music again and doing things for myself.

Again, I haven't done a really long time. I got a sitter that comes twice a week. So I'm going to be focusing on myself and like making myself happy and doing things I've missed and yeah, that's really kind of where I'm at.

No, that's amazing. I think that's really good, especially the music because I feel like that could probably be really healing for you because I believe music is healing. So totally.

I mean, obviously you're going through a lot and it is like I feel like divorce is a little bit of a grieving process. You know, it's kind of it is a new beginning.

And so grief is not linear. So I'm sure you'll be going through the ups and downs still, but I love that you are just.

Definitely a daily.

Yeah, and that's totally normal. That's completely normal. Anyone would feel that way. No matter how their relationship was.

I think it's great that you're you're able to see a little bit of the silver lining. I guess is what I want to say.

Yeah. And I'm excited that it's a new year and that I can kind of like just try to just release that.

Yeah, as much as I can. That's beautiful actually.

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