Shrinking or Swelling to Fill Your Space :: Courtney DeFeo [Ep 406]
Don't Mom Alone Podcast
Don't Mom Alone Podcast
4.9 • 2.3K Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2023
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever seen a “magic towel” that swells and “grows” when you put it in water? Have you shrunk a shirt in the laundry? At different times in our lives God assigns us a space that we have to shrink or swell to occupy. This could mean giving up beloved roles, or taking on responsibilities we don’t want. How do we respond when we find ourselves in these situations?
My guest this week is Courtney Defeo. At God’s leading she stepped back from a high-profile career and dreams of being a CEO so her husband could step forward in his career pursuits. She put certain things on hold to create the family and home culture she wants. While at first glance it might seem like she’s squandering her talent and intellect, when she looks around her life she sees things that can only be done now. She feels the freedom to use her gifts in the spaces she’s in now.
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Website: https://courtneydefeo.com/
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Instagram: @courtney_defeo
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| 0:00.0 | Hey all, welcome back to the Don't Mom Alone podcast. |
| 0:10.2 | I'm your host Heather McFadian and this is the place where I get to walk alongside you |
| 0:15.3 | and connect you with people and resources so you know that you don't mom alone. |
| 0:20.6 | And in this episode, number 406, I'm welcoming back to the show, my friend Courtney DeFoe. |
| 0:27.9 | I just felt like that, like a horse is bumping up against a boundary or a gate. |
| 0:32.0 | It's like, it's not right now. |
| 0:33.4 | And that's okay. |
| 0:34.4 | And he's taught me in that shrinking that it's okay and it's okay to just like you would |
| 0:39.0 | feel joy and grief and the same thing. |
| 0:41.0 | You can hold both of that. |
| 0:42.0 | You can hold disappointment and you can hold energy and passion around up things and |
| 0:47.4 | just have to keep sitting with them like we do at lunch. |
| 0:51.4 | This is week five in our right where you belong series. |
| 0:55.2 | The series we're doing to talk about my new book right where you belong. |
| 0:58.7 | And I wanted to have Courtney on the show because I included her story in one of the chapters |
| 1:03.0 | of the book and you'll hear that excerpt. |
| 1:04.4 | I'll read it in this episode. |
| 1:07.0 | So far in our series, we've talked through when you feel like you're missing out and to recognize |
| 1:11.4 | that if we're in the middle of God's will or not missing out, go check out that interview |
| 1:15.4 | with Venetha Rizner. |
| 1:17.6 | And then we talked through identifying your God given space. |
| 1:22.1 | If we need to know God's will and what he's inviting us into, we need to look at the boundary |
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