Shove Your Shoulds: The Real Cost of Indecision and How to Trust Yourself with Money with Jessica Frew

Everyone's Talkin' Money

Shari Rash

Self-improvement, Business, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Education

4.2 • 648 Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2025

⏱️ 50 minutes

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What if the biggest thing holding you back from making bold money moves... was your own inner voice saying you should be doing something else? In this episode, I’m joined by Jessica Frew—mom, stepmom, ex-wife, wife, and the bold action-taking creator of The BOLD Logic and author of Shove Your Shoulds. We’re unpacking the hidden price tag of indecision and the financial weight of those “shoulds” that keep so many women stuck in careers, relationships, and money patterns that no longer serve them. Jessica shares her personal journey through divorce, remarriage, and entrepreneurship, and how she learned to break free from inherited money beliefs and make aligned financial choices that feel good and make sense. If you're constantly second-guessing your financial decisions or over-researching every move, this episode is the permission slip you’ve been waiting for. You’ll walk away with: Why “shoulds” cost you money, energy, and confidence How to spot decision debt and what it’s doing to your financial progress The 3-step method Jessica teaches to make bold, aligned decisions Why waiting for “clarity” might be costing you more than you think How to create emotional safety around money decisions What it actually means to make confident, values-aligned financial moves Be sure to follow the podcast so you never miss an episode. Follow us on Instagram @Everyonestalkinmoney to stay in the know of everything ETM. Thank you to our sponsors! Policygenius - Head to policygenius.com to compare free life insurance quotes from top companies and see how much you could save. Ava - Help build your credit score with Meetava.com. Use promo code: Money Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:10.5	Hey everyone. Welcome back to everyone's talking money. Shari here, and today we are diving deep into something I think a lot of us are secretly battling, especially if you're the overthinker type who's got 10 browser tabs open about which savings account is best or whether it's
1:29.3	smart to walk away from a job that looks perfect on paper. We are talking about the financial
1:35.0	cost of indecision and those sticky little things called shoulds. My guest today is the amazing
1:41.8	Jessica Frue, author of shove your Your Shoulds and creator of the bold
1:47.6	logic, where she helps women break free from inherited money beliefs and learn to trust themselves
1:54.2	fully. She's a wife, an ex-wife, a mom, and a bold action taker who's walked through divorce, remarriage, and
2:03.4	massive life pivots while staying grounded in what's right for her. And that's exactly what we're
2:09.7	unpacking today. How to stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace, how to finally trust your
2:16.4	gut with money moves, and how to break out of the
2:19.5	should spiral that's draining your energy, your bank account, and your self-worth. This one's got
2:26.5	tough love, major truth bombs, and some real talk about what it means to choose yourself.
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