The breach of trust that would be established if your best friend hooked up with your fiancé.

At that point it is over for everybody, right?

Could you even find the forgiveness in your heart for that no

mmm not at all I'm not that good of a person no way maybe in years maybe no that's a rap f. No, that's a rap problem.

I know forgiveness is supposed to be more for you

than it is the other person because it frees you

of holding on to that anger.

I would hope I could get to a point where like I forgive you but I am never

talking to you again. Right. Like I don't want anything bad to happen to you but I

just don't ever want to be around you. Yeah I would want something bad to

happen.

Yeah, that little voice inside of your head.

Wouldn't be mad at it.

Not like a car wreck, but like a really aggressive STD for sure. All right, so in this case we got an email where she finally forgave like her best friend

for sleeping with her

and then the best friend just bounces on her and ghosts or so what do you do? I don't is there anything to do?

Dear Bird Show hello my name is Fannie and I need advice on how to deal with my ex best friend. We moved to a state together

after 15 years of being friends. We were roommates. We had so much fun together. She was literally

my soulmate. I would not trade her for any man in this world.

However, about six years after moving to a new state together, I started dating a guy from my past, my stepbrother.

Well, that took a twist.

Wait, I read that right.

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