Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2020

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Today's call touches on an interesting moral dilemma that many have likely considered, but far fewer have acted on. As "the other woman", which is more ethical: To tell your ex-lover's girlfriend about his cheating ways, or to stay out of their relationship and let her learn those tough lessons on her own? How far does "Do Unto Others" extend, or is it better to trust in karma? And in playing a role in the indiscretion, does one surrender the right to moral high ground? Shandy definitely wants your take on this one!

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0:00.0	What song did he send you?
0:02.9	Just curious.
0:03.4	I don't want to tell you.
0:04.4	Don't even tell you.
0:05.2	I've never heard of it.
0:06.4	Oh, I can just hear everybody cooking in ours.
0:09.6	Oh, that hurts.
0:10.6	Oh, that hurts.
0:12.1	Dear Shandy.
0:15.5	Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners.
0:20.0	Handie, how are you doing?
0:21.1	I'm doing OK.
0:21.9	You're doing OK.
0:22.4	You feel right.
0:22.9	You're doing good.
0:24.7	We have a caller today.
0:27.8	And I remember her email.
0:29.1	It made an impression on me because it was one of those emails
0:32.1	where I wasn't like, this is the absolute answer.
0:35.3	It was kind of gray.
0:37.9	It was gray.
0:39.0	And I think those are interesting.
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