She Treats Me Like A Backup Booty Call. Should I Tell Her I’m Moving On?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 23 April 2026
⏱️ 12 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.7 | newsletter is going to be. She treats me like a backup booty call. Should I tell her? I'm moving on. |
| 0:13.6 | So this guy, he's 35 and he's occasionally hooking up with a 21 year old fellow musician. |
| 0:24.5 | I guess a media once or twice a month, they see each other at these different music festivals. They hang out, they have fun, they hook up, but he says |
| 0:29.8 | every time in between them, when he reaches out to try to get together for a date or to see her, |
| 0:36.0 | she always is busy and has plans. And so he's thinking about telling her |
| 0:40.5 | that he's going to move on and hopes that it makes her want to spend more time with them. So I tell |
| 0:46.3 | him what to do instead because the problem is he cares way more about her than she does about him. |
| 0:53.1 | And it's, I mean, he's 14 years older than her. He should know |
| 0:56.6 | better. But it's pretty clear that she's got all the power. And he needs to, as the book says, |
| 1:03.9 | you got to match and mirror the effort and behavior. If you're reaching out to a girl, even if it's |
| 1:09.3 | somebody you hook up with once or twice a month, |
| 1:11.4 | and then you try to see her more than that, and she's just non-responsive or is always busy, |
| 1:16.6 | if you've reached out two times in a row and she's not excited about getting together with you, |
| 1:23.4 | but then you see her in a few weeks at a festival and she's down to hook up, well, give her the same level of importance in your life that you are and hers. |
| 1:33.0 | What he's basically doing is treating her like a priority |
| 1:35.4 | when she kind of treats him like a once, |
| 1:40.8 | a monthly or a bi-monthly booty call basically as what's going on here. |
| 1:47.3 | This just goes to show. |
| 1:49.1 | It's women like you way more if they think they're more into you than you are into them. |
| 1:54.0 | And when it's the opposite, you basically get treated the way this guy is getting treated. |
| 1:59.9 | So he says, hi, Corey. I'm 35 and I've been seeing a |
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