the virtue. So what are you guys put your foot in your mouth and a major

cringe really, really badly and you have leaned on Kristen for help in this area.

So I got this DM on Insta and it says, hi, Kristen. I love the show. Listening to

you guys every morning really makes my day. You always give the best advice, which

is why I'm coming to you with this. I promise I have the DM to prove it. I didn't

just make all that up. My best friend slash sister of the last decade has

recently become part of the TTC. If you don't know what that is, TTC is

trying to conceive. But there's the TTC club trying to conceive club. It's been

about six months of trying with no luck. About a month ago, she had begun

venting in our group chat about their current struggle. We were all trying to be

supportive and lift her spirits and I truly put my foot in my mouth. After she

vented and we gave uplifting words, I tried to mention things to try that I had

read previously and heard from other mothers who were part of the TTC. She gave

unsolicited advice when she herself is not experiencing infertility. She put

some parentheses, which was in hindsight the absolute wrong thing to do in that

moment. And she rightfully asked us not to do that again and said we didn't

understand. In parentheses, which we don't as we've never gone through this

before, I just wanted to see if there was any advice you could give as someone

who experienced this to help us navigate these conversations later. Thanks. And

then she followed with another DM said, she and I spoke about it later on and I

apologize. She accepted we're on great terms. I would really like to avoid her

ever saying something. I would really like to avoid ever saying something that

...