Sharing Sexual Past With Your Spouse | 14 Days of Sex | Day 6

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

XO Marriage

Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships

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🗓️ 13 January 2024

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, where we're knee-deep in our 14 Days Of Sex Challenge! Today, we're delving into a topic that's as personal as it gets – the importance of discussing sexual history in a marriage. We're all about full disclosure, baring it all, and having those tough, but crucial, conversations about our pasts. From the number of partners to mindsets, expectations, and insecurities, nothing's off the table. We get real about struggles with pornography and its impact on how sex is viewed. Join us for a raw and honest conversation that hits close to home. ------------------ FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------ Takeaways Open and honest communication about sexual history is crucial in a marriage. Sexual history includes not only past partners but also mindsets, expectations, and insecurities. Childhood sexual experiences can have long-term effects and should be addressed with compassion and understanding. Seeking counseling and support can help in processing and healing from past sexual trauma. Apologizing and rebuilding trust is important when revealing past actions in a marriage. ------------------ 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Discussing Sexual History 01:00 Understanding Sexual History 02:25 Personal Sexual History 04:18 Embarrassment and Regret in Sharing Sexual History 05:46 Childhood Sexual Experiences 07:11 Trauma and Loss 09:06 Processing Trauma with a Counselor 10:33 Long-Term Effects of Trauma 13:28 Dealing with Regret and Guilt 16:17 Supporting Spouses with Sexual Trauma 17:45 Revealing Past Actions in Marriage 21:03 Moving Forward and Seeking Healing 22:29 Apologizing and Rebuilding Trust 23:28 Conclusion and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:29.2	Hello and welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast, we are Dave and Ashley Willis and on
0:36.9	this podcast we address the truth about sex intimacy and lifelong love and you
0:41.9	guys were continuing in our series all about sex for 14 consecutive days.
0:46.1	And today we're talking about a really important one,
0:49.2	one that we get a lot of questions on. I know I've said that a lot, but this is one.
0:52.4	We do get a lot of questions on. I know I've said that a lot but this is one we do get a lot of
0:53.2	questions on and that is how do I handle talking about my own sexual history
0:58.8	with my spouse but also how do I handle accepting my spouse's sexual history?
1:04.8	Yeah, yeah, this is so important, so complex.
1:09.2	It's something that should happen,
1:12.0	these conversations should happen before you're even married.
1:15.0	Right.
1:16.0	It should be part of the full disclosure of just getting everything out there, out in the open,
1:21.5	before you were married.
1:23.0	For the most part, I feel like we covered,
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