We received this question from one of our awesome listeners and viewers. Thank you so much for

in advance for submitting that question to us. Here it is. My husband had an affair about two and a half

years ago. I have forgiven him and both of us have made much needed changes. Our marriage is a lot

better now, but my husband's guilt and shame is driving him away from the church. He feels great guilt

and regret when attending. I don't think he believes God will forgive him. I need a Christ-centered

marriage. I've been praying, but how can I help my husband further? So yeah, that's a deep

complicated question. We just actually last week, the previous marriage episode on the channel,

or in the previous episode in the Fierce Marriage podcast. We talked about the anatomy of an affair.

So this question just came in. I think it's quite providential. We can start talking through.

Okay, so you've been a part of one of these part of an affair, whether it's physical or emotional.

There's probably going to be a lot of shame around it on both sides of the equation. So today,

we're going to address this idea of shame and regret and guilt, particularly around marriage and

infidelity. So we'll see you on the other side.

Hello and welcome back. My name is Ryan. This is my lovely wife, Selina. We are the founders

faces voices behind all things Fierce Marriage, Fierce Parenting, Fierce Families. Thank you for

joining us. The whole reason we do these videos, we do these podcast episodes is to just bless

the body of Christ. We are wanting to point you to Christ. And so we thank you for spending some

time with us giving us your ears, your eyes, your attention. We hope that it's fruitful. We trust

that it will be. And let's just dive right into this. Okay. We're answering this question

that I read before we did the intro. And just to be honest, it's a little risky, I think, to take

on a question of this magnitude. And it's actually, I think it's really hard. It's difficult to serve

this couple well because we're not walking alongside you. However, you are, you ask this question

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