It's the virtue. It's almost intoxicating, having this secret from your friends. When

you got two people in the friend group that are hanging out and they're dating and nobody

else in the friend group knows, but that's got like a time limit on it. Have you guys

ever been in one of these relationships where you're in a kind of a secret relationship?

Cassie was with her husband for the longest time. Yeah. Yeah. We were in a secret relationship

for a year and a half, two years. It's, we worked in a very small office, like the same

number of people as the virtue, actually, like around 11. And I took out a PO box because

they had sent around like a list of everyone's names and addresses. And of course, my last

name was young and his was wood. So they would have seen the same address when we moved

in together. So I took out a PO box to hide. We had plans like I would dip my car back,

like make the seat go lay flat if we were going to drive by work or we saw someone we knew

in the mall. I remember we would just I walked, we walked in together and saw someone

we knew and just split just when opposite directions and it came out when we decided to go

to England to celebrate my grandmother's 80th. And I told the people in the office who

was kind of friends with, it happened to be April Fool's Day. And so I had just said

I'm going to England and they said, Oh, Chad's going to England too. You guys should

like meet up or you should talk to him about it. And I said, Yeah, we're going together

and nobody believed us for 24 hours because they thought we were pulling an April Fool's

Day. So we're so different. Well, those things have like an expiration date because at some

point someone's going to go, Okay, we need to tell everybody and the other person might

be like, you know what the time is not real right for me just yet. And that's what this

email is all about because she's ready to like expose this thing and he's not and she's

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