Things you would never bring up in therapy, you could bring up here.

How do I communicate that I'm no longer interested without hurting the other person?

Okay, listen, stop ghosting. Instead, what you have to do is

actually tell the person that you're not interested without telling that passage. Does that make sense?

You don't have to say I'm not attracted to you, but I do think we all have a responsibility to say something.

A lot of times when I was dating and I knew it wasn't going to be a relationship,

I had a conversation with the person I was dating and said,

listen, I don't think it's a good fit, you know?

Just be honest, but be kind.

That's it.

Just be honest, but be kind. That's it. Just be honest, but be kind.

But please communicate.

If you don't, it's telling you where you're at, right?

And also, I think that's shit comes back.

I think it's bad energy you're putting into that space.

And so when you're complaining about not being able to find someone, well, maybe you are acting in a way that is contributing to the magnet being flicked.

Have you ever tried to stay friends with an ex? If so, how did it go and how did y'all navigate the transit?

I would love to be friends with, I would say, all of my answers.

I mean, in a healthy way, we don't have to be best friends, but I would love to know how

they're doing and care about them as people.

I have not made that attempt because I believe most of them have feelings toward me,

meaning bad feelings, or they might be angry.

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