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The Refined Collective Podcast

Sexless in the City: My Breaking Point

The Refined Collective Podcast

Kat Harris

Honesty, Religion & Spirituality, Love, Leaders, Life, Businessowners, Authenticity, Courage, Society & Culture, Christianity

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 April 2021

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y’all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!

Drumroll please…

My book Sexless in the City launches next week! And so for the first time ever, I’m reading my book on the podcast this week. Here is chapter 1 of my book: My Breaking Point.

As you leave this episode, I want you to reflect on these questions:

  1. What did you learn about sex from home? Church? School?
  2. Up until this point, what are the beliefs you have held about dating, desire, and sex?
  3. When and why did you start adhering to these beliefs?
  4. What questions do you still have?



For those of you who have pre-ordered, email social@therefinedwoman.com to claim your free bonus goodies! What sort of bonus goodies?

Haven’t pre-ordered yet? There’s still time to!

Go to sexlessinthecitybook.com and scroll down to see all of the places you can pre-order from. Then screenshot your receipt and send to social@therefinedwoman.com and we’ll make sure you get your pre-order goodies right to your inbox.

Why am I asking you to pre-order? Pre-ordering is actually one of the biggest ways you can support me and my book launch. The number of pre-order sales tells places like Barnes and Noble and Amazon how many books they should have in stock. I want my book to be available in allll the stores and that only happens if there is a demand for the book in stores! So thank you THANK YOU to everyone who has already pre-ordered. I hope you enjoy the bonus goodies as a token of my appreciation.

I can’t wait for you all to dive into my book!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Refine Collective Podcast.

0:06.4

I'm your host, Cat Harris, and I'm just so glad you're here.

0:10.6

This podcast is designed to dig below the surface.

0:14.0

We're going to talk about everything from life to love and pretty much everything

0:18.8

in between.

0:20.0

So go ahead and leave that Superman cape of having it all together at the door because

0:24.6

life is freaking messy.

0:26.6

Don't I know it.

0:28.6

Now not only are we going to be real, we're going to have some fun too, because Lord

0:32.2

knows I will find any excuse to bring up Beyonce or the latest episode of the Bachelorette.

0:38.1

So if you're a new friend, welcome.

0:40.5

Make sure you're subscribed to the Refine Collective Podcast on iTunes.

0:44.6

And if you're an old friend, welcome back.

0:47.2

And would you do me a quick favor?

0:49.2

Hop on over to iTunes, leave us a five star rating and written review.

0:52.7

I would be so grateful.

0:55.6

Finally, if something stands out to you in this episode, go on and slide into my DMs

0:59.8

on Instagram.

1:00.8

I love hearing from you.

1:02.1

It's at the Refine woman.

1:04.1

Now let's go ahead and get to it.

1:08.0

This episode is brought to you by Upstart.

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